我有一次失败的婚姻，几年了，我都
one reason that you can't accept a new girl friend is that you are used to making comparasion between the new comer and your ex-wife。
经常会想起以前一起开心的日子，由于她的离开而经常自责。自已作为丈夫，连妻子都留不住，真没用。
--------yes , you should care you ex-wife before she tried other person's care for her, but you should not lose you...全部
one reason that you can't accept a new girl friend is that you are used to making comparasion between the new comer and your ex-wife。
经常会想起以前一起开心的日子，由于她的离开而经常自责。自已作为丈夫，连妻子都留不住，真没用。
--------yes , you should care you ex-wife before she tried other person's care for her, but you should not lose you confidence after she made another choise。
Because for you, knowing how to do and to do it in the future is helpful to your future happiness。
为什么以前这么难的日子都挺过来了。反而一起而会发生这么多的问题！
--------as you said, because 由于大家忙于工作减少了相互间的关心，形成相互间隔阂增多，矛盾也多了。
认识几个女孩，都觉得没有原来的妻子那么好？
---------thisisverypossibleinreality,butyoucanalwaystrytomeetapersonwhomatchesyou。
justdon'talwayslivelikethis:几年过去了,但我都一直无法忘记她,经常会想她现在过得好吗?youshouldgiveuprecallingyourex-wifeorlookingback, isuselessandnotgoodforyoutodothis。
难道就这样一个人过下去吗？父母年纪又大了，我担心她们能否看到我再结婚。
--------ofcourseyouwillfindanothergirlwholovesyouandwhomyoulove。
butitisnotrelatedtoyourparent' difyoudidso,itprobablywouldleadtoanotherunhappymarriage, dyoushouldbeserioustofindarightgirlfortherestofyourlife。
这个人为什么这么难找？或许命中注定我要一个人生活吧？我该怎么办？
-------- no hurry, you would not be alone, but it depends on time and your mature personality。
best wishes。收起
