这里的“
教育”是“让孩子有教养”的意思,同educate的那种“教育”是两回事。A well-educated person is not necessarily well-behaved。
所以应该这样翻才符合愿意:
If you have a son and fail to bring him up to behave well, he will ruin your own family。
If you have a daughter and fail to bring her up to behave well, she will ruin someone else's family。
Therefore, if you cherish a deep hatred against a person, you can have a daughter, bring her up to behave terribly, and make her the person's daughter-in-law。
In this way you will settle the old score。
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