learnhowtosay"NO
Saying no is easy, as there is only one word you need to utter。 But saying no is also difficult, as the word demonstartes your opposition。 If you want to show your opposition without strongly offending others, it's particularly difficult。 So learning how to say no is very important to a person...全部
Saying no is easy, as there is only one word you need to utter。 But saying no is also difficult, as the word demonstartes your opposition。
If you want to show your opposition without strongly offending others, it's particularly difficult。
So learning how to say no is very important to a person and to a country。
Suppose you are opposed to a decision made by your boss。
If you blatantly say no and offer your great ideas, you will definitely offend your boss, who most probably will teach you a lesson in one way or another some day and your great ideas will never be accepted。
So if you want your ideas accepted, you should first of all not offend your boss。 The point is how。
You need to have a clear picture of your boss。 What kind of person is he? Is he open-minded or narrow-minded? Is he tolerant of other opinions? So learning how to say no is trying to understand the person you want to say no to。
The same is with countries。 China seldom says no to the United States, not because China has never differed from the US, but because China does not afford to offend that country。
So learning how to say no is also of great diplomatic significance。
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